Module 4-Activity 4 : Social Norms and Practices
Reflect on the following statements and share why certain institutions/ideas and practices require to change
• Sons are legal heirs of family property
• Early marriage of girls
• Men are caregivers/nurturers
• Practice of Dowry
• Preference of sons over daughters
• Menstrual taboos and myths
• Restrictions on physical mobility of girls
• Girls are non- permanent members of the family
Early child marriage should be banned. Dowry should be prohibited as per law.
ReplyDeleteCorrect Sir.. These are the hurdles of Society..
DeleteGender discrimination in school should be avoided.
DeleteAlready in law sir
DeleteRight madam,we should take care both in equally.
DeleteBoys and girls are equal in every aspect of our modern society. Infact girls are showing ridiculous progress in field of studies or be it games. Which is just the reverse of past years. Say(20-30 years agone).
DeleteBut sadly discrimination still exists. Girls aren't given proper education and are getting married rather than doin a job in many corners of the country.
So we should make people understand give em chance. They will touch the stars. No discrimination should exist in both the genders.
ପ୍ରକୃତରେ ବର୍ତ୍ତମାନ ସମୟ ବଦଳି ସାରିଛି। ତେଣୁ ପୁରୁଣା ନିୟମ ଗୁଡିକ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ହେବା ଉଚିତ। ଝିଅ ମାନେ ମଧ୍ୟ ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କ ପରି ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ପାଇବା ଉଚିତ।ଯଉତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ସମ୍ପୁର୍ଣ୍ଣ ବନ୍ଦ ହେବା ଦରକାର।ପୁଅ ମାନଙ୍କ ପରି ଝିଅ ମାନେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଯତ୍ନ ନେଇପାରିବେ।ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ଠିକ ନୁହେଁ। ପୁଅଝିଅଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ ଦୃଷ୍ଟିରେ ଦେଖିବା ଉଚିତ। ମାସିକ ଋତୁସ୍ରାବ ଉପରେ ସାମାଜିକ ଧାରଣା ର ପରିବର୍ତନ ହେବା ଦରକାର। ଶାରୀରିକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଠିକ ଭାବେ ହେବା ଉଚିତ ଓ ବାଳିକା ମାନେ ମଧ୍ୟ ପରିବାର ର ସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ ହୋଇ ପାରିବେ।
DeleteBastabare sir
Deleteଏହା ଆଜିର ସମୟର ଆହ୍ବାନ
Deleteବର୍ତ୍ତମାନ ସମୟ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ହୋଇସାରିଛି। ସମୟ କ୍ରମରେ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ବିଶେଷ ବି ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ହେବା ଦରକାର। ଏ ସବୁ କୁଚିନ୍ତାକୁ ମନକୁ ଦୁର କରିବାର ଆବଶ୍ୟକତା ଅଛି
DeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender. Discriminating girl child over boy is a social evil and should never exist in our society . Though the legal system of our country has taken several necessary steps to provide equal opportunities to girls like boys but more education and awareness is required at the ground level to educate people on this .
ReplyDeleteSocial evils against girl children like early girl child marriage ,dowry system, female foeticide, considering male gender as superior than female etc . those used to exist predominantly in Indian society and still existing today should be strictly abolished and encouraging this in any form should be criminalized and treated as punishable offense by court of law.
Absolutely right
DeleteWe should follow it
Thanks Mam, it should be followed.
DeleteAbsolutely right.
DeleteAbsolutely correct.
DeleteEvery one should follow this idea
DeleteA change in social norm is a long term process, as it is a change in behaviours of individuals and collectives. This involves a great deal of self reflection and honesty, something that is not easy to do in short span of time. When a critical mass of individuals displays changed behaviour that is when social norms will change.
ReplyDeleteRight Sir.. We shall have to start from own..
Deleteहम भारतीयों को व्यापक स्तर पर हमारी मानसिकता का बदलाव करना है हमारे देश में जिस तरीके से नारी उत्पीड़न शारीरिक तौर पर हो रहा है हो रहा है यह हमारे दृढ़ निश्चय और दृढ़ चरित्र की कमी के लिए हो रहा है, हमारे अंदर जितनी कमियां है जो सोच में कमियां है उसको बदलना है पारिवारिक स्तर पर पहले बदलाव की जरूरत है क्या हुआ अगर लड़की लड़की है तो उसे भी उसकी शारीरिक संरचनाओं के समेत हमें एक बराबर का दर्जा देना है और उसके बाद बच्चे जब विद्यालय आते हैं तो फिर हम शिक्षक लोग लिंगभेद पर कोई डिस्क्रिमिनेशन नहीं करना चाहिए लेकिन इसके लिए सही मायने में हर परिवार को शिक्षित और समर्थ होना चाहिए तब जाकर लिंग भेद मिटेगा जय हिंद
ReplyDeleteEarly child merriage,dowry system are decreasing as compare to thirty or fifty years back if we see. Still we have to totally eradicate such types of evils from our society.
ReplyDeleteVery true.. Sir..
DeleteBecame superstation and should be eradicated
Deleteलिंग भेद समाज में नहीं होना चाहिए स्त्री और पुरुष प्रकृति के बनाए हुए दो विशेष व्यक्तित्व हैं लिंग के आधार पर हम भेद करना सही नहीं है परिवार में जिस तरीके से बेटों को प्रधान ने दिया जाता है उसी तरीके से बेटियों को भी प्रधान ने दिया जाना चाहिए जो लड़कियों को मासिक धर्म आता है उसको लेकर बहुत सारी रीति रिवाज जो कि लड़कियों को कुंठा ग्रस्त कर देते हैं ऐसा नहीं होना चाहिए बल्कि यह एक शारीरिक प्रक्रिया है जैसे के मूत्र विसर्जन मल विसर्जन उसी तरीके से यह भी एक शारीरिक प्रक्रिया है नेचर का कॉल है समझ कर इसे लड़कियों में जो कि इस समय में बहुत असुरक्षित और शारीरिक रूप से कमजोर रहती हैं उनको यह समझाना चाहिए कि यह नेचुरल प्रोसेस और लड़कियों को हर हाल में दिमागी रूप से दृढ़ बनाकर उन्हें समाज में स्थान देना चाहिए और इसके लिए पुरुषों को पहल करनी होगी पुरुष लोग यह सोचना है कि नालियों का किस तरीके से सम्मान किया जाए और इसी तरीके से समाज से मिटेगा जय हिंद
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All these above views belongs to the peoples having
Stereotype and orthodox mentality or practices. In general social practices these views are narrowly accepted and practiced. As a result the female children or adults are ruining their talents and capabilities due to lack of opportunities in a very narrow setup.
The most of the Social elite people exercise all these so confidently since a long period that all these views are considered as a part of Civilisation.
But now when literacy rate had grown up around all over the world, these practices are finally considered as stupidity and evil.
So for the judicious progress equal distribution of rights among all the legal heirs is necessary.
In no way these views /practices will become benevolent. So these should be changed into all-round beneficial practices having equal distribution of opportunities and rights among all "03" Genders.
A change in social system/Custom is long term process, as it is a change in behaviours of individuals and collectives. This involves a great deal of self reflection and honesty, something that is not easy to do in short span of time. When a critical mass of individuals displays changed behaviour that is when social norms will change.
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DeleteWe are the culprit of the society we should change ourselves first then other will automatically change.
ReplyDeleteAll are equal a girl is equal as a boy.
All these statements are accepted by the people who have old and blind beliefs.These statements have no importance now.women are very equal in every aspect of life.as a teacher we have to realise this
ReplyDeleteThe stereotype feelings should be enhanced.
ReplyDeleteDowry system should be prohibited as per law.
Equality should be given both for boys and girls.
Women empowerment should be emphasized.
Early child marriage should be banned. Dowry should be prohibited as per law. Daughters r permanent member of family in my view. They may/may not stay more time than son, but they have equal right as a son.
ReplyDeleteRight. ...
DeleteAbove comment belongs to Kshitish Kumar Beverage, asst tr, Got UPS,Dimagadia, Udala Block
ReplyDeleteEarly child marriage should be discouraged..
ReplyDeleteI support this state ment because if a girl marry early she must be weak enough. During pregnancy her child may be weak. So she can not produce a healthy child. All development of her child will not be possible.
DeleteHello I'm Udhaba Kumar Das and I believe all the above mentioned norms should not be entertained in today's society. People should be educated well to realise that both Men and women are equal and they should be treated equally. When done so, our nation can develop with equal effort of men and women. And as teachers , it should be one of our prime goals to educate and aware the students as well as the parents, to not believe in such myths or stereotypes and to practice norms those are morally and ethically right.
ReplyDeleteTABOOS AND BLIND BELIEFS
ReplyDeleteFrom the ancient age, from where the tradition runs, all these so called taboos, are made slowly, which are practiced for a better social life, have grown into a curse for today.
It was made according to that time but now we have to change according to the needs.
I am agree with you.
DeleteI thik both son and daughter must be legal heirs of family property. We should leave the practice of dowry. It is a duty of every responsible citizen to register a FIR against early child marriage.We must learn our boys to respect girls and never restrict girls on mobility.
ReplyDeleteNot only property they should legal for everything
DeleteI think every body should change the mentality
ReplyDeleteCorrect
DeleteUneducated people have believe that women are inferior than men. But with the idevelopment of our nation more and more people have understood the importance of gender equality and girl education for the betterment of our nation. So as a teacher we have the responsibility to encourage our future generation to give same importance to girl and boy in every field, so we could build a better future.
ReplyDeleteIn the society every should change the mentality
ReplyDeleteAforesaid ideas and practices are killers of social harmony .They are not only hindrances but also curse for progress of our civilization .They need to be changed for the sake of female mass which constitute 50% of total population in particular and for whole society in general.
ReplyDeleteAccording to my views certain institution, ideas and practices against sex and gender must be modify because both son and daughter has equel rights and privileges in the eyes of law. Both are the legal heir of property not only boys. Early marriage of girls should be banned because they can not provide healthy one being weak enough. Both should be care givers. Dowry must be prohibited. Performance goes to both. Mensuralmyths should be avoided. There should not be restriction only for girls for move ment. We should not think sa girls are non permanent member of the family.. All Conservative idea should be reformed.
ReplyDeleteCauses of wiping Gender Discrimination
ReplyDeleteAll these above views belongs to the peoples having
Stereotype and orthodox mentality or practices. In general social practices these views are narrowly accepted and practiced. As a result the female children or adults are ruining their talents and capabilities due to lack of opportunities in a very narrow setup.
The most of the Social elite people exercise all these so confidently since a long period that all these views are considered as a part of Civilisation.
But now when literacy rate had grown up around all over the world, these practices are finally considered as stupidity and evil.
So for the judicious progress equal distribution of rights among all the legal heirs is necessary.
In no way these views /practices will become benevolent. So these should be changed into all-round beneficial practices having equal distribution of opportunities and rights among all "03" Genders.
A girl should be equal. as a boy in our society.
ReplyDeleteIn no case a daughter should be neglected.Now-a-days Indian Woman deserves every post in the society even the first citizen of India.They keep pace with the men.We should have a motto,"Respect the woman,remember their pivotal role in building a good nation."
ReplyDeleteAll given social norms should be change.Even till today some norms are prevailing but it obstacles the gender equality.so all should change.
ReplyDeleteWe should change our mind.We should give priority a girl child .Never underestimate the girls.The girls can do anything as a boy.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should given equal opportunity irrespective of their gender.
ReplyDeleteSons and daughters are legal heirs of family property.
ReplyDeleteWe are the culprit of the society we should change ourselves first then other will automatically change.
ReplyDeleteAll are equal a girl is equal as a boy.
The above statements are evil practices of our society. They should be changed. Girls are more dedicated and dutiful to their parents as well as parents - in - law. So, the are called Duhita. They play a vital role to unit and co - ordinate their both family. So, we should take proper care regarding the health, education, sociopolitical
ReplyDeleteand economic status of the girls to build a smooth and sound society.
We live in a society where girls & boys are separated on the basis of attitude,their choice of colours.we just have to make sure that we shouldn't give the feeling if inferiority to whoever it may be. We should encourage girls by providing them the essentials they need the most to be something in their life. You shouldn't give them the feeling that they are born to marry and take care of their kids. When a child is born we first differ them on the basis of toys.we give female child the dolls and fluffy toys and male child cars and machinery stuffs.we consider pink as colour of girls. We discriminate them on the basis of their behaviour that girls should have a calm nature & boys should have a rough nature.so we should encourage everyone not only girls but also boys to be strong and make their future bright😇😇😇
ReplyDeleteEarly child marriage should be banned. Gender discrimination should be avoided. Every child without thinking son or daughter should be given equal importance in the family.
ReplyDeleteପୁଅ ଝିଅ ସମାଜର ଦୁଇଟି ଅଭିନ୍ନ ଅଙ୍ଗ।
ReplyDeleteସମସ୍ତଙ୍କ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ବି ରହିଛି ସମାଜର ସବୁ କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ । ପୁଅ ଯେ ପରିବାରର ବୈଧିକ ଉତ୍ତରାଧିକାରୀ ଏହା ଭାବିବା ଅନୁଚିତ୍ ।
ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କ ବିବାହ ଶୀଘ୍ର , ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ଏସବୁ ଦୂର ହେବା ଜରୁରୀ । ଘୃଣ୍ୟ ମାନସିକତାର ନିଦର୍ଶନ। ଉପରୋକ୍ତ ଉକ୍ତିଗୁଡିକ ସମାଜରେ ମହିଳା ତଥା ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କ ବିକାଶ ଦିଗରେ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ସୃଷ୍ଟି କରେ । ସୁସ୍ଥ ସମାଜ ଗଠନ କରିବାକୁ ହେଲେ ପକ୍ଷପାତିତା , ପାରମ୍ପରିକ ପ୍ରଥା ଗୁଡ଼ିକ ମଧ୍ୟରେ ରକ୍ଷଣଶୀଳ ମନୋଭାବ ନ ରଖି ସକାରାତ୍ମକ ମନୋଭାବ ପ୍ରଦର୍ଶନ କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍।
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DeleteI agree with you
DeleteMale and female both are two side of a coin .Female are more dedicated than male .
ReplyDeleteThe parent should give equal opportunity to the son and daughter. Discrimination girl child is a social evil and it should be prohibited in our society. The son and daughter have equal rights on the family property. Early marriage of the girls should be prohibited and also the dowry system. The girls should be given equal privilege as the boys.
ReplyDeleteGirls are more dedicated than boys for their parents and their families.
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ReplyDeleteGirl child's should not be killed
ReplyDeleteGovernment also doing a lot to stop this
Beti bachao beti padhao
It is a campaign of the Government of India that aims to generate awareness and improve the efficiency of welfare services intended for girls in India
But after that also people are not aware. In this matter it's not government fualt it's the fault of each and every people of the society who just thinks that why I have a girl child ! girl is a burden
government can't do anything every people should be aware of it
Every child should be given equal opportunity in the family Discriminating girl child over boy is a social evil and should never exist in our society .
ReplyDeleteChild marriage is one of the worst thing done in our society and it is a crime also
In every family there should be equal importance of a girl and a boy
Every child have their own rigts to learn every child has equal rights on education Social evils against girl children like early girl child marriage ,dowry system, female foeticide, considering male gender as superior than female etc . those used to exist predominantly in Indian society and still existing today should be strictly abolished and encouraging this in any form should be criminalized and treated as punishable offense by court of law.
Right sir
ReplyDeleteRight sir
ReplyDeleteEvery child should get equal opportunity in school. In our society social evils against girl child should be abolished.
ReplyDeleteEvery people wants lady doctors for his wife but no one wants girl child.
ReplyDeleteWhy no one wants girl child
Girl child is not less from boy child. Girls are equal to boys even they are more from boys .
Girls are educated they are toppers. I know that boys are also toppers boys are also successful but boy or girl There is a people behind their success . That people is their mother if she doesn't give birth to that child he couldn't be a successful person. So the people behind every successfull person is him/her mother And she is a girl.
लड़कीयां बोझ नहींं होती समय आने पर परिवार की सारी बोझ उपने सर ले लेती है
ReplyDeleteSociety must give equality for boy and girl .They should change their mentality.
ReplyDeleteRIGHT THOUGHT
DeleteAll these superstition may be eradicated from our society
ReplyDeleteHarekrushna Panda
ReplyDeleteପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ସମାଜ ର ଦୁଇଟି ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ଅଙ୍ଗl ତେଣୁ ଉଭୟ ଙ୍କୁ ସମସ୍ତ କ୍ଷେତ୍ର ରେ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ମିଳିବା ଦରକାରl ପୂର୍ବ ରୁ ଚାଲି ଆସିଥିବା ପୁରୁଣାକାଳିଆ ପ୍ରଥା ଗୁଡିକ ବନ୍ଦ ହେବା ଦରକାର ଏବଂ ସଠିକ ବୈଧ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ଚାଲିବା ଦରକାରl
Governmental policies and the parents are the sole cause for gender based problems . Parents of a girl must be given sufficient support and power for taking any decision on the matters of girl children abuse and nuisance.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender. Discriminating girl child over boy is a social evil and should never exist in our society .
ReplyDeleteBasic rights like freedom toove,express etc should be given to each individual without putting gender in consideration.But even after saying to be so much progressive our society still needs a son as legal heir.A girl is just a commodity to be kept until she is marriage .We prefer our 1st child to be a son not a daughter.
ReplyDeleteWe have been always taught that no matter what is the situation it's a boy's duty to nurture the family.A girl shouldn't be given the opportunity of jobs,works. To add more fuel early marriage.Boys in every family are allowed for Ra free movement but when comes to a girl no problem arises .Still in the 21st century we have an thought of making our girls marry at an age of 16or marry her as soon as she reaches menstural phase.
The whole world is here due to this process of release of eggs ..that is periods or menstural cycle.but we still hold it as taboo and consider it to be impure which indicates our regressive thought.We don't even have the guts to admit the very process as pure as any temple. The solution to these are with the parents since each family makes a building block of the society.To change the taboos it is to be started from home.
Dowry is definitely the biggest regressive thought.We say we won't take dowry but guess what indirectly we take card,bikes etc.No don't how much we get educated we are still the same .Dowry must even for personal s with good education.
ReplyDeleteDowry system prevents poor parents to arrange a marriage. on the other hand early marriage is due to lack of education. Many educated girls prefer to remain unmarried or marry at a latter age after crossing 30 years.
DeleteI m agree
ReplyDeleteEarly marriage of girls totally baned due to various rules and regulations by British - India government. Actually both men and women are caregivers.Practice of Dowry should be baned from our society by various rules and awareness programmes .we should give preference daughters over sons.As soon as possible there is no restrictions on physical mobility of girls .
ReplyDeleteA change in social norm is a long term process, as it is a change in behaviours of individuals and collectives. This involves a great deal of self reflection and honesty, something that is not easy to do in short span of time. When a critical mass of individuals displays changed behaviour that is when social norms will change.
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ReplyDeleteମହିଳାଙ୍କସ୍ୱଧୀନତା,ସ୍ୱାଧୀକାର,ପାରଦର୍ଶିତା,ଦକ୍ଷତା, ପଟୁତା ଉପରେ ଅହେତୁକ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନର ଦ୍ୱାହି ଦେଇ ଏହା ହଟାଇବା ଉଚିତ
ପୁରାତନ ରକ୍ଷଣଶୀଳ ମନୋଭାବକୁ ଦୂରେଇ ଦେଇ ପୁଅଝିଅଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ଦିଆଯିବା ଦରକାର ।ତାହାକୁ ଶୃଙ୍ଖଳିତ ସକାରାତ୍ମକ ଦିଗରେ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟରେ ଲଗାଇଲେ ସମାଜର ଉନ୍ନତି ହୋଇପାରିବ ।
ReplyDeleteପୁରାତନ ରକ୍ଷଣଶୀଳ ମନୋଭାବକୁ ଦୂରେଇ ଦେଇ ପୁଅଝିଅଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ଦିଆଯିବା ଦରକାର ।ତାହାକୁ ଶୃଙ୍ଖଳିତ ସକାରାତ୍ମକ ଦିଗରେ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟରେ ଲଗାଇଲେ ସମାଜର ଉନ୍ନତି ହୋଇପାରିବ ।
ReplyDeleteIllegal activities like this should be banned and people performing this should be punished.
ReplyDeleteBoth as female /male Or son/daughter are equal. They have the equity for all the rights. Somewhere one is better than the other, but not in the work , specially for girls Or boys. Like cooking is only for the female, no maybe the male should better than the female. It is just the way they deserve to do according to their comfortable zone. Maybe their passion. As a teacher or parents/elders we must support them. To fly over where they can and they want .
ReplyDeleteNot only property thay should legal for everything
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity .Early child marriage should be banned.Government should take steps to stop dowry system.
ReplyDeleteThe ancient taboos can be rectified by the change of social behavioral patterns. Change ourselves before changing others. The journey should starts from i not from they.
ReplyDeleteGirls and women menstruating are not unclean. They are normal, natural, and healthy. The myth that women cannot enter temples and holy ground is culturally controversial, and a sensitive issue. When women are treated differently because of a naturally occurring body cycle it creates shame, taboos, and humiliation towards periods that is deeply embedded into society. And that is the only thing that’s ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteGirls and women menstruating are not unclean. They are normal, natural, and healthy. The myth that women cannot enter temples and holy ground is culturally controversial, and a sensitive issue. When women are treated differently because of a naturally occurring body cycle it creates shame, taboos, and humiliation towards periods that is deeply embedded into society. And that is the only thing that’s ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteGirls and women menstruating are not unclean. They are normal, natural, and healthy. The myth that women cannot enter temples and holy ground is culturally controversial, and a sensitive issue. When women are treated differently because of a naturally occurring body cycle it creates shame, taboos, and humiliation towards periods that is deeply embedded into society. And that is the only thing that’s ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteEarly child marriage should be banned. Gender discrimination should be avoided. Every child without thinking son or daughter should be given equal importance in the family.
ReplyDeleteGender discrimination shouldn't be promoted because it is considered as one of the greatest barriers in the path of our country's development.
ReplyDeleteGirls and boys should be treated as the right and left hand of a person respectively. As both the hands play equal role, girls should also be given equal priority as boys.
We all should always remember that a home is empty without a girl because if girls will not exist, then who will give birth to us???
How shameless we are....can't we see that the one we discriminate,underestimate, we are born from them only. We can't imagine ourselves, infact we are nothing without them. So who the hell give us the right to underestimate the greatest creation of the almighty????
Meanwhile, our society is changing. Girls are being treated equally as boys. Child marriage, dowry are being prohibited. People practicing these are penalized but still the familiar culture of heiring property to boys is going on. Our government should strictly look into this. And if we talk about the menstrual days, then a lot of changes are required.People should be modernize, should update their minds and change their perceptions about a menstruating girl.They should think that if a girl couldn't menstruate, then how would they have been born???
A lot have been and still a lot of changes are required in our society to give respect girls of which they are entitled.
All these statements are accepted by the people who have old and blind beliefs.These statements have no importance now.women are very equal in every aspect of life.as a teacher we have to realise this.
ReplyDeleteAll these thing are correct but no.2,no.4.no-6 and no.-7 things are not right
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ReplyDeleteSuch type of evil practices which are going in our society must be banned.
ReplyDeleteGender stereotype roles should be minimised..
ReplyDeletePatriarchy prevails most of the Indian families which suppresses the women sector of the society.
ReplyDeleteTo overcome all the traditions, myths and taboos which are prevailing in our society we have to
1) Educated in real sense
2) Learn to be bold enough to raise our voice against the evils.
3) Charity begins at home, that's why each andce very Indian family has to treat their son and daughter equally in every sectors, namely education, job, choosing life partner etc.
Social norms and practices should be strictly prohibited which are great barriers special for girls.so as a teacher we must guide and provide the best education for each girl child befitting them to fight each problems of their life.
ReplyDeleteWe should do more important on education to the female. This is the only way to mainstreaming to the society.
ReplyDeleteThis is the single weapon to change the society.
Dowry system should be abolished.
ReplyDeleteWe should change our social and cultural gender stereotype to encourage gender equality.There should not any discrimination between boy and girl child.
ReplyDeleteActually these are the main barriers to the equality between men and women. It damages equal rights, ignore ability of women, depressed their self-reliance, wicken the strength of their minds &although make them inferior to men.Ofcourse these things not only today's problems but from the past beliefs and practices. It has been a long and continuous process to overcome .It can't be changed overnight and only solved by teachers but also by developing education ,awareness, different practical posture s in a continuous and academic way.
ReplyDeleteOld traditions and costoms are already obsoluted.Our constitution is in effect now.All genders are equal and same guidelines are applicable for all. Deviated institutions and persons can be procuted by law.We should inform appropriate authorities for strict actions.Then only we can see that society is transforming.
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ReplyDeleteYes these are the fact of discrimination. But very difficult to overcome the huddles. These are chain of gender discrimination all known. these facts.. But task is difficult to break the chain...think where should we START ? We will avoid discrimination at school any how.
ReplyDeleteWe will promise to not support gender discrimination at school as well as in family and in society too.
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It's my pleasure to express my view on the 1st topic of the above activity "Sons are legal heirs of family property"
(ପୁଅମାନେ👦 ପାରିବାରିକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିର ବୈଧ ଉତ୍ତରାଧିକାରୀ ଅଟନ୍ତି)
👆ଏହା ଏକ ବହୁ ପୁରାତନ ସାମାଜିକ ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ଯାହା ଆଜି ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ ମଧ୍ୟ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟକାରୀ ହୋଇ ଆସୁଛି। ଆମର ଭାରତୀୟ ପରିବାର ଓ ସମାଜ ପୂର୍ବରୁ ସମ୍ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ରୂପେ ପୁରୁଷ 🧑କୈନ୍ଦ୍ରିକ ଓ ନାରୀମାନଙ୍କ👩 ପ୍ରତି ବେଶ୍ ରକ୍ଷଣଶୀଳ ଥିଲା । ପୁଅମାନେ ପାରିବାରିକ ବା ପୈତୃକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିର ଉତ୍ତରାଧିକାରୀ ହେବାର ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା, ଗରହଣୀୟତା ତଥା ନିୟମ ପରି ଆଉ ଅନେକ ଏପରି ନିୟମ ଯାହା ମୁଖ୍ୟତଃ ସମାଜରେ ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ଠାରୁ ଉଚ୍ଚ ସ୍ଥାନ ଦେବା ସହ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ଅବହେଳିତ କରି ନୀଚ୍ଚା ଦେଖାଇବାର ହୀନଭାବନାକୁ ପ୍ରୋତ୍ସାହନ ଦେଇ ଆସୁଛି। ଆଜିର ଅତ୍ୟାଧୁନିକ ସମାଜରେ ଏହି ଭାବନାରେ କିଛି ମାତ୍ରାରେ ହ୍ରାସ ଘଟି ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ଅବଶ୍ୟ କେତେକ ପରିବାରରେ ଗୁରୁତ୍ବ ଦିଆଯିବା ସହ ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ମଧ୍ୟରେ ପ୍ରତି କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ ପକ୍ଷପାତ ବିହୀନ ସମାନତା ରକ୍ଷା କରିଲେଣି। ପୂର୍ବାପେକ୍ଷା ସମାଜରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ପ୍ରତି ସକରାତ୍ମକ ପରିବେଶର ବିକାଶ କିଛି ମାତ୍ରାରେ ହେଲାଣି। ଆଉ ଏହା ଯୁକ୍ତିସଙ୍ଗତ ମଧ୍ୟ। ଭାରତୀୟ ସମ୍ବିଧାନରେ ଉଭୟ ପୁଅ ଏବଂ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ପ୍ରତି କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ଦିଆଯାଇଥିଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ ବାସ୍ତବରେ ତାହା ଶତପ୍ରତିଶତ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟକାରୀ ହୋଇ ନଥାଏ। ଏପରିକି ପୁରାତନ କାଳରେ ପୁଅ ମାନଙ୍କୁ ପାଠ ପଢିବାକୁ ସୁଯୋଗ ଦିଆଯିବା ସ୍ଥଳେ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ପାଠ ପଢିବା ପାଇଁ ସୁଯୋଗ ଦେବା ତ ଦୂରର କଥା ବରଂ ଝିଅଟିଏ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଗ୍ରହଣ କରିବା ଅଶୁଭ ବୋଲି ମଧ୍ୟ ସାମାଜିକ ଅନ୍ଧବିଶ୍ୱାସ ରହିଥିଲା ଯେଉଁ ସାମାଜିକ ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରାଟିକୁ ଓଡ଼ିଶାର ପ୍ରଖ୍ୟାତ ଗାଳ୍ପିକ ଫକୀର ମୋହନ ସେନାପତି ନିଜ "ରେବତୀ" ଗଳ୍ପରେ ପ୍ରତିଫଳିତ କରିଛନ୍ତି। ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ଉଭୟଙ୍କର ଶାରିରୀକ ଗଠନର ଭିନ୍ନତାକୁ ଭିତ୍ତିକରି ସେମାନଙ୍କ ଦକ୍ଷତା ଆକଳନ କରିବା ବା ସେମାନଙ୍କୁ ତାଙ୍କ ଦାୟିତ୍ଵ/ ଅଧିକାର ଆବଣ୍ଟନ କରିବା ସମ୍ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ଭୁଲ। ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ଉଭୟ ଈଶ୍ୱରଙ୍କ ସୃଷ୍ଟି ଓ ସମାଜର ଦୁଇଟି ଚକ୍ଷୁ ସଦୃଶ। ଉଭୟଙ୍କୁ ବିନା କୌଣସି ପକ୍ଷପାତରେ ଉପଯୁକ୍ତ ଶିକ୍ଷା, ସଂସ୍କାର ଦେବା ତଥା ସେମାନେ କିପରି ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ ହୋଇ ନିଜ ପରିବାରର ଭାର ସମ୍ଭାଳିବାକୁ ସକ୍ଷମ ହୋଇପାରିବା ସହ ସମାଜର ଦାୟିତ୍ଵବାନ ନାଗରିକ ହୋଇ ପାରିବେ ସେ ବିଷୟରେ ଆମେ ସମସ୍ତେ ନିଜ ପରିବାରରୁ ସଚେତନ ହେବା ଆବଶ୍ୟକ। ଝିଅମାନେ ଘରକରଣା ଶିଖିବା ଉଚିତ, ଝିଅମାନେ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଗ୍ରହଣ କରିବା ଅନୁଚିତ, ଝିଅ ପରଧନ, ଝିଅଟିଏର ଜନ୍ମ କେବଳ ଜଣେ ପୁଅଙ୍କୁ ବିବାହ କରି ଘର ସଂସାର କରିବା, ଝିଅକୁ ପୈତୃକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିରୁ ଉଚ୍ଛେଦ କରି ପୁଅଙ୍କୁ ଶତପ୍ରତିଶତ ଅଧିକାରୀ କରିବା, ଝିଅଙ୍କ ଚାଲି ଚଳଣିରେ ନାନା ସାମାଜିକ କଟକଣା ଲଗାଇବା ଆଦି ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ପ୍ରଗତିରେ ବହୁ କାଳରୁ ମୁଖ୍ୟ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ହୋଇଆସୁଛି। ଏସବୁ ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ଏକ ପ୍ରକାର ନାରୀ ଶୋଷଣ ଓ ଅତ୍ୟାଚାର। ସମାଜରୁ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ପ୍ରତି ଏସବୁ ନକରାତ୍ମକ ଭାବନାର ମୂଳୋତ୍ପାଟନ ନିତାନ୍ତ ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ଯାହା ସେତେବେଳେ ସମ୍ଭବ ହୋଇ ପାରିବ ଯେତେବେଳେ ସର୍ବ ପ୍ରଥମେ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କର ପିତା-ମାତା ଓ ପରିବାର ଏ ଦିଗରେ ବିଶେଷ ଯତ୍ନବାନ ହେବେ। ପୁଅଙ୍କ ପରି ନୁହେଁ ବରଂ ଝିଅମାନେ ଶିକ୍ଷା, କ୍ରୀଡା, ବୈଷୟିକ ବିଜ୍ଞାନ, ନୃତ୍ୟ, ଅନ୍ତରୀକ୍ଷ ବିଜ୍ଞାନ, କଳା ଆଦି ପ୍ରତି କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ ସେମାନଙ୍କ ଠାରୁ ଯଥେଷ୍ଟ ଆଗରେ। ଝିଅ ମାନେ ଆଜି ନୁହେଁ ବରଂ ବହୁ ପୂର୍ବରୁ ନିଜର ଶକ୍ତି, ସାମର୍ଥ୍ୟ, ପାରଦର୍ଶିତା ସୁନିଶ୍ଚିତ କରିବା ସହ ସେମାନେ ଯେ ଘର,ସନ୍ତାନ, ପରିବାର ଓ ସାଂସାରିକ ଭାର ଉଠାଇବା ସହ ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ ହୋଇ ନିଜ ବୃଦ୍ଧ ପିତାମାତାଙ୍କ ଆର୍ଥିକ ଦାୟିତ୍ଵ ବହନ କରିବାକୁ ସକ୍ଷମ ଏ କଥା ସୁନିଶ୍ଚିତ କରି ସାରିଛନ୍ତି। ତେଣୁ ଝିଅ ଓ ପୁଅ ମଧ୍ୟରେ କୋୖଣସି ବି ବାଛବିଚାର, ପକ୍ଷପାତକୁ ପ୍ରଶ୍ରୟ ନ ଦେଇ ଉଭୟଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ ଦୃଷ୍ଟିରେ ଦେଖିବା ଏକ ପ୍ରକୃତ ସଭ୍ୟ ସମାଜର ମୁଖ୍ୟ ଗୁଣ। କେବଳ ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ପୈତୃକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିର ଉତ୍ତରାଧିକାରୀ କରିବା ନିଶ୍ଚିତ ଭାବେ ଅନ୍ୟାୟ ଓ ଅପରାଧ ମଧ୍ୟ। ବରଂ ସାମାଜିକ ସ୍ତରରେ ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ଉଭୟଙ୍କର ପାରିବାରିକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିରେ ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ରହିବା ଉଚିତ ଯାହା ନାରୀ ସଶକ୍ତିକରଣରେ ସହାୟକ ହୋଇ, ଝିଅଙ୍କୁ ଏକ ପ୍ରକାର ଆର୍ଥିକ ସୁରକ୍ଷା ପ୍ରଦାନ କରିବା ସହ ସମାଜରେ ପ୍ରଚଳିତ ଲିଙ୍ଗଗତ ପକ୍ଷପାତିତାର ମାତ୍ରାକୁ ହ୍ରାସ ଓ ଲିଙ୍ଗ ଗତ ସମାନତା କୁ ପ୍ରୋତ୍ସାହନ କରିବାରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ସାହାଯ୍ୟ କରିବ ଯାହା ଏକ ସୁସ୍ଥ ସମାଜ ଗଠନର ଭିତ୍ତିଭୂମି।
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We should give equal rights both sons and daughters in our family.
DeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family. Gender discrimination should be avoided.
ReplyDeleteSuperstitious, tradition of our society especial for girls should gradually change and eradicate. In educational Institutions to eradication of gender discrimination coeducation privilage.National Govt. Provides a no.of privilages, awards, incentives and facilities towards the girl enhancement.
ReplyDeleteEarly marriage of girls(ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ):-
ReplyDeleteବାଳିକା💁ମାନଙ୍କର ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କ ପ୍ରଗତିରେ ଏକ ପ୍ରମୁଖ ବାଧକ। ଆମ ମଧ୍ୟରୁ ଯେଉଁ ମାନେ ନିଜ ଜେଜେମା ଓ ମା' ଙ୍କ ବିବାହ ବୟସ ବିଷୟରେ ଜାଣିଥିବା ତେବେ ଏକଥା ନିଶ୍ଚୟ ଜାଣି ପାରିବା ଯେ ଆମ ଜେଜେ ମା' ଓ ମା' କେତେ ଅଳ୍ପ ବୟସରେ ବିବାହ କରିଥିଲେ। ପୁଣି ଜେଜେମା ଯେତେ ବୟସରେ ବିବାହ କରିଥିଲେ ମା' ତାଙ୍କ ଠାରୁ ଟିକେ ଡେରିରେ ବିବାହ କରିଥିବାର ଆମେ ଜାଣି ପାରିବା। ଜେଜେମାଙ୍କ ସମୟରେ ବାଲ୍ୟବିବାହ ମଧ୍ୟ ପ୍ରଚଳିତ ଥିଲା ଫଳରେ ସେ ସମୟରେ ବାଲ୍ୟାବସ୍ଥାରେ ଯେଉଁ ସମୟରେ ଝିଅଟିଏ ର ଧୂଳି ବାଲିରେ ଖେଳ ଖେଳିବାର କଥା ସେ ବୟସରେ ଝିଅର ବିବାହ କରି ଦିଆ ଯାଉଥିଲା ଏବଂ ଝିଅଟି ମାତ୍ର ୧୦-୧୨ ବର୍ଷ ବୟସର ହେଲା ମାତ୍ରେ ତାକୁ ତା ଶ୍ବଶୁରାଳୟକୁ ପଠାଇ ଦିଆଯାଇ ତା' ଉପରେ ସମସ୍ତ ପାରିବାରିକ, ସାଂସାରିକ ବୋଝ ତା ଅଜାଣତରେ ଜବରଦସ୍ତ ଲଦି ଦିଆଯାଉଥିଲା। ଫଳରେ ଅଳ୍ପ ବୟସରେ ଝିଅଟିଏ ସାମାଜିକ, ସାଂସାରିକ ପାରିବାରିକ ଦାୟିତ୍ଵ ନେବା ପାଇଁ ଉଭୟ ଶାରୀରିକ ଓ ମାନସିକ ସ୍ତରରେ ସକ୍ଷମ ହେବା ପୂର୍ବରୁ ହିଁ ଏକାଧିକ ସନ୍ତାନ ର ମା' ହୋଇ ନିଜ ସ୍ବାସ୍ଥ୍ୟ, ସ୍ବାଧୀନତା ଆଦି ହରାଇ ଥାଏ ଓ ଏକ ଜରାଜୀର୍ଣ୍ଣ, ଚାପପୂର୍ଣ ଜୀବନ ଅତିବାହିତ କରିଥାଏ। ଝିଅଟିଏ ଶାରିରୀକ ଓ ମାନସିକ ସ୍ତରରେ ଅପରିପକ୍ଵ ଥିବାରୁ ସୁସ୍ଥ ସନ୍ତାନ ମଧ୍ୟ ଜନ୍ମ କରି ପାରେନାହିଁ ଓ ରକ୍ତହୀନତା, ନିମ୍ନ ରକ୍ତ ଚାପ ଆଦି ରୋଗରେ ପିଡୀତ ମଧ୍ୟ ହୋଇଥାଏ। ଏପରିକି ବେଳେ ବେଳେ ସନ୍ତାନ ପ୍ରସବ ସମୟରେ ଝିଅଟିଏ ମୃତ୍ୟୁ ବରଣ ମଧ୍ୟ କରିଥାଏ।
ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ଏକ ସାମାଜିକ ବ୍ୟାଧି ଯାହା ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ଶାରିରୀକ, ମାନସିକ, ସାମାଜିକ ସ୍ତରରେ ଦୁର୍ବଳ କରିଥାଏ। ବର୍ତ୍ତମାନ ଆମ ଭାରତୀୟ ସମାଜରୁ ବାଲ୍ୟବିବାହ ପ୍ରଥା ପ୍ରାୟ ନାହିଁ ଓ ସରକାରୀ ସ୍ତରରେ ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ସର୍ବନିମ୍ନ ବିବାହ ବୟସ ୧୮ ବର୍ଷ କରାଯାଇ ଥିଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ ବର୍ତ୍ତମାନ ଆମର ପ୍ରଧାନମନ୍ତ୍ରୀ ଶ୍ରୀଯୁକ୍ତ ନରେନ୍ଦ୍ର ମୋଦୀ ଝିଅ ମାନଙ୍କ ଶିକ୍ଷା, ସୁରକ୍ଷା, ପ୍ରଗତି, ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ ହେବା ଓ ସଶକ୍ତିକରଣ ଉପରେ ବିଶେଷ ଗୁରୁତ୍ୱ ଦେଇ ସେମାନଙ୍କ ସର୍ବନିମ୍ନ ବିବାହ ବୟସ ବୃଦ୍ଧି କରିବା ପାଇଁ ପୁନଃ ବିଚାର କରୁଛନ୍ତି ବୋଲି ନିକଟରେ ସୂଚନା ଦେଇଛନ୍ତି। ଯାହା ଅତ୍ୟନ୍ତ ସ୍ୱାଗତଯୋଗ୍ୟ ପଦକ୍ଷେପ। ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ବିଷୟରେ ଚିନ୍ତା ନ କରି ବରଂ ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ କନ୍ୟା ପିତାମାତା ନିଜ କନ୍ୟା ସନ୍ତାନକୁ ଉପଯୁକ୍ତ ଶିକ୍ଷା, ସଂସ୍କାର ଦେଇ ତାକୁ ସର୍ବ ସମର୍ଥା ଓ ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ କରି ଗଢି ତୋଳିବା ପାଇଁ ସଚେତନ ହେବା ସହ ଏହା ପାଇଁ ଉଚିତ ପଦକ୍ଷେପ ମଧ୍ୟ ଗ୍ରହଣ କରିବା ଉଚିତ। ସେଥିପାଇଁ କୁହାଯାଏ, ନାରୀ ପ୍ରଗତିରେ ପରିବାର, ସମାଜ ଓ ରାଷ୍ଟ୍ରର ପ୍ରଗତି।
Men are caregivers/nurturers
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ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ବହୁ କାଳରୁ ଏ ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ରହିଛି ଯେ ପୁରୁଷ ମାନେ ଯତ୍ନ ନେବାକାରୀ ଓ ପାଳନପୋଷଣକାରୀ। ଅର୍ଥାତ୍ ପରିବାରରେ ପୁରୁଷ ମାନେ ରୋଜଗାର କରି ଘର ପରିବାର ଓ ସନ୍ତାନ ସନ୍ତତିଙ୍କର ଆବଶ୍ୟକତା ପୂରଣ କରିବେ। ଅନ୍ୟ ପକ୍ଷରେ ନାରୀ ରୋଷେଇ ବାସ ଆଦି ଘରକାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ସମ୍ପାଦନ କରି ଘର ସମ୍ଭାଳିବେ। ପୁରୁଷର ରୋଜଗାରରେ ଘରର ସମସ୍ତ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ ବହନ କରାଯାଏ । ନାରୀ କେବଳ ସନ୍ତାନ ଜନ୍ମ କରି ପୁରୁଷର କୁଳରକ୍ଷା କରିବା ଓ ସାଂସାରିକ ଜଞ୍ଜାଳର ଭାର ବହନ କରିଥାଏ। ତେଣୁ ପୁରୁଷକୁ ଯତ୍ନ ନେବାକାରୀ/ପାଳନପୋଷଣକାରୀ ବୋଲି ବହୁ ଆଗରୁ ସମାଜରେ ବିବେଚନା କରାଯାଇ ଆସୁଛି। ମାତ୍ର ଏହି କଥାଟି ଭିତ୍ତିହୀନ । କାରଣ ଆଜିର ନାରୀ ରକ୍ଷଣଶୀଳତାର ସଂକୀର୍ଣ୍ଣ ପାଚେରୀ ଭାଙ୍ଗି ନିଜ ଶକ୍ତି, ସାମର୍ଥ୍ୟରେ ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ ହୋଇ ପାରିଛି। କେବଳ ଘର ପରିବାରର ରୋଷେଇ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ, ସନ୍ତାନ ଜନ୍ମ କରିବାର ଦାୟିତ୍ବ ନୁହେଁ ବରଂ ନାରୀ ଆଜି ନିଜ ପ୍ରତିଭାରେ ସମାଜରେ ସୁପ୍ରତିଷ୍ଠିତ ହୋଇ ପାରିଛି। ନିଜ ପାଇଁ ନିଜେ ସ୍ବତନ୍ତ୍ର ପରିଚୟ ସୃଷ୍ଟି କରି ଆତ୍ମନିର୍ଭରଶୀଳ ହୋଇ ପାରିଛି। ପରିବାର ଓ ସମାଜର ଆର୍ଥିକ ଭାର ମଧ୍ୟ ନାରୀ ସୁଚାରୁରୂପେ ବହନ କରି ପାରୁଛି।କେବଳ ପୁରୁଷ ଯେ ଯତ୍ନ ନେବାକାରୀ/ପାଳନପୋଷଣକାରୀ ଏପରି ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରାକୁ ନାରୀ ଭୁଲ ବୋଲି କେବେଠାରୁ ପ୍ରମାଣିତ କରି ସାରିଛି।
I think, gender equality is a goal to make this whole wide world knows that actually women are also have their rights to change the world and women need an education. In sums, GENDER EQUALITY is very meaningful. Let's we together standing for women's rights and say no to VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN
ReplyDeleteଆମର ଦୃଷ୍ଟିକୋଣ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ହେବା ଉଚିତ ।
ReplyDeleteପରିବାରରେ ଉଭୟ ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ
ଅଧିକାର ଦେବା ଉଚିତ ।
There should be gender equality
ReplyDeleteBoth boys and girls have the same right to avail socially politically.
No discrimination between girls and boys and equal opportunity should be given to both girls and boys for their all-round development . The practice of Dowry should be completely banned in the society .
ReplyDeleteସାମାଜ ରେ ଦେଖା ଯାଉଥିବା ଲିଙ୍ଗଗତ ଭେଦଭାବ ପୁରୁଣା ପ୍ରଥା ପରମ୍ପରା ଓ ସାମାଜିକ କୁ ସଂସ୍କାର ଇତି ଦ୍ଵାରା ପରିବାର ରୁ ହିଁ ଆରମ୍ଭ ହୋଇଥାଏ ଲ ନାରୀ ମାନଙ୍କୁ ଅବଳା, ଫୁଲ, ଲତା ଇତ୍ୟାଦି ଦ୍ଵାରା ତୁଳନା କରି ସାମାଜିକ ସ୍ତର ରେ ମାନସିକ ଭାବେ ପ୍ରତାରଣା କରିବା ବ୍ୟତୀତ ଦୁର୍ଗା, ପିଟିଉଷା, ଲକ୍ଷ୍ମୀବାଈ ଭୋଲି ନାରୀ ମାନଙ୍କୁ ସାହସୀ ପୁରୁଷ ସହିତ ତୁଳନା କରିବା ଭୋଲି ପରିବେଶ ସୃଷ୍ଟି କରାଯିବା ଆବଶ୍ୟକ l
ReplyDeleteପରିବାର ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ମାନଙ୍କୁ ସମାନ ଦୃଷ୍ଟିରେ ଦେଖିବା ଉଚିତ ।
ReplyDeleteDiscrimination should be abolished , every person should get equal opportunity and social justice .
ReplyDeleteAll gender discrimination should be bann in school and society as response to individual respect. All child should get equal opportunity.
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ReplyDeleteEvery child should given equal opportunity irrespective of their gender.
ReplyDeletePractice of Dowry (ଯୈାତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା):-
ReplyDeleteକନ୍ୟାକୁ ବିବାହ ଦେବା ସମୟରେ ତାର ନୂଆ ସାଂସାରିକ ଜୀବନକୁ ସହଜ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ପିତାମାତା ଏବଂ ପ୍ରିୟ ପରିଜନ କନ୍ୟାକୁ ନୂତନ ବସ୍ତ୍ର, ଆଭୁଷଣ, ନାନା ପ୍ରକାର ନିତ୍ୟବ୍ୟବହାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ଜିନିଷ, ଗୃହୋପକରଣ ଆଦି ଦେବାର ସାମାଜିକ ପରମ୍ପରା ବହୁ ପୂର୍ବରୁ ରହିଛି। ଯେହେତୁ କନ୍ୟା ନିଜ ପିତ୍ରାଳୟ ଛାଡି ନିଜ ଶ୍ବଶୁରାଳୟକୁ ଯାଇ ଥାଏ ତେଣୁ ଅନ୍ୟ ଏକ ନୂଆ ପରିବାରରେ ଝିଅ ଯେପରି ପ୍ରାଥମରୁ କୈାଣସି ସମସ୍ୟା ର ସମ୍ମୁଖୀନ ନହେବ ତେଣୁ ଝିଅକୁ ବିବାହ ସମୟରେ ପିତାମାତା ନିଜ ସାମର୍ଥ୍ୟ ମତେ ସ୍ବେଚ୍ଛାକୃତ ଭାବେ କନ୍ୟାକୁ ଶ୍ରଦ୍ଧାରେ ନାନା ଜିନିଷ ଦେଇଥାନ୍ତି ଯାହାକୁ ଆମେ 'ଯୈାତୁକ' କହୁ। କିନ୍ତୁ କେତେକ ଲୋଭି, କୃପଣ ବରପକ୍ଷଙ୍କ ପାଇଁ ଧୀରେ ଧୀରେ ଏହି ପାରମ୍ପାରିକ 'ଯୈାତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା' ସାମାଜିକ ବ୍ୟାଧି ହୋଇ କନ୍ୟା ଓ କନ୍ୟା ପିତାମାତାଙ୍କ ପାଇଁ ମୁଣ୍ଡ ବ୍ୟଥାର କାରଣ ହୋଇ ଯାଇଛି। ଏଥିପାଇଁ ମଧ୍ୟ କେତେକ ଗରିବ ପରିବାରରେ ଝିଅଟିଏ ଜନ୍ମ ହେଲା ମାତ୍ରେ ହିଁ ମାତାପିତା ଝିଅର ବିବାହ ଓ ଯୈାତୁକ କଥା ଚିନ୍ତାକରି ଏପରି ଭାରାକ୍ରାନ୍ତ ଓ ଚାପଗ୍ରସ୍ତ ହୋଇ ପଡ଼ୁଛନ୍ତି ଯେ ସେମାନେ ନିଜ ଜୀବନର ଅନ୍ୟ ସମସ୍ତ ଖୁସିକୁ ଭୁଲି ଯାଉଛନ୍ତି ଏବଂ ନିଜ ଝିଅର ଶିକ୍ଷା ବିଷୟରେ ତିଳେ ହେଲେ ଧ୍ୟାନ ଦେଉ ନାହାନ୍ତି। କେତେକ ପିତାମାତାଙ୍କର ଏପରି ମଧ୍ୟ ଭାବନା ରହିଛି ଯେ ଝିଅକୁ ଯେତେ ଉଚ୍ଚ ଶିକ୍ଷିତା କରିବା ତା' ବିବାହ ପାଇଁ ସେତେ ଅଧିକ ଯୈାତୁକ ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ପଡିବ। ତେଣୁ ଝିଅକୁ ପାଠ ପଢ଼ାଇବା ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ ସାଙ୍ଗକୁ ପୁଣି ଯୈାତୁକ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ ବେଶୀ ଚାପ ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ହୋଇଯିବ ମଣି ଝିଅର ଶିକ୍ଷାକୁ ପିତାମାତା ଏତେ ଗୁରୁତ୍ୱ ଦିଅନ୍ତି ନାହିଁ । ବରଂ ପିତାମାତା ଝିଅକୁ କେବଳ ଯଥାସାଧ୍ୟ ଯୈାତୁକ ଦେଇ ବିବାହ କରିଦେବାରେ ନିଜ କର୍ତ୍ତବ୍ୟ ଶେଷ ବୋଲି ମଣନ୍ତି। ଫଳରେ ଯୈାତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଓ ଅଗ୍ରଗତିରେ ଏକ ବଡ଼ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ । ଯୈାତୁକ ଦାବି କରିବା ବା ନେବା ଏବଂ ଯୈାତୁକ ଦେବା ଆଇନତଃ ଅପରାଧ ଓ ସେଥି ପାଇଁ କଠୋର ଦଣ୍ଡ ବିଧାନ ଥିଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଆଜି ବି ଆମ ସମାଜ ଯୈାତୁକ ବ୍ୟାଧିରୁ ସମ୍ପୁର୍ଣ୍ଣ ମୁକ୍ତ ନୁହେଁ। ପ୍ରତିଦିନ ଯୈାତୁକ ନିର୍ଯ୍ୟାତନା ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ନାରକୀୟ ଅପରାଧର ଖବରମାନ ଆଜି ମଧ୍ୟ ଆମ ଖବରକାଗଜର ପୃଷ୍ଠା ମଣ୍ଡନ କରୁଛନ୍ତି। ଯୈାତୁକ ପ୍ରଥାକୁ ସମାଜରୁ ସମୂଳେ ନାଶ କରିବାକୁ ହେଲେ ଏହାର ତୀବ୍ର ବିରୋଧ ଦେଶର ପ୍ରତିଟି ସଚେତନ ନାଗରିକ କରିବା ସହ ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ବିବାହ ଯୋଗ୍ୟା ଝିଅ ଏହା ପଣ କରିବା ଉଚିତ ଯେ ଯୈାତୁକ ଦାବି କରୁଥିବା ପୁଅ ସହ ବିବାହ କରିବି ନାହିଁ ଓ ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ବିବାହ ଯୋଗ୍ୟ ପୁଅ ଏହା ପଣ କରିବା ଉଚିତ ଯେ ଯୈାତୁକ ମୁଁ ଗ୍ରହଣ କରିବି ନାହିଁ। ତେବେ ଯାଇ ଆମ ସମାଜରୁ ଯୈାତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ପରି ସାମାଜିକ ବ୍ୟାଧିର ମୂଳୋତ୍ପାଟନ ହୋଇପାରିବ ଓ ନାରୀ ଅଗ୍ରଗତି ତ୍ବରାନ୍ବିତ ହୋଇ ପାରିବ।
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ReplyDeleteBias means unequal treatment . Gender bias is a preferences towards one gender over the other . In our country , gender bias attitide in men and women have existed for generations .The biased behaviour towards women is more. women are not given equal opportunities though they have same capacity as those of men. This biased or discrimination behaviour begins from home. such as dowry system, male as heir , women cannot do outside job or cannot remain outside late night. early marriages for girl child. preference of boys over girls etc.
ReplyDeleteThese ideas or mindset of people that girls are weak and boys are strong is need to be changed. Children should be taught that all are equal irrespective of their gender. First they need to think a girl can equally compete with boys if equal opportunities is given . A girl can equally get the property along with her brothers, she can manage house hold thing along with job . They dont need marry early if they can stand in their own feet and are independent. It all start from home. If the parents are well understanding then they can teach their children what is wrong what is right. And if children
experience this bias or discrimination at home from beginning then they will adopt the mindset that way only .
So these type of ideas and mindset can be changed from home then only it can passed to next generation.
1.We should not discriminate between boys and girls. Girls are equally capable as boys to be the legal heirs of the family.
ReplyDelete2.The early marriage of girl should be banned as child marriage is illegal.
3.Women are also considered as nurtures or caregivers as she give all her time to his child So, it is wrong to think that only men are care givers.
4.Practice of dowry is a criminal offence So ,it's practice should be dropped as soon as possible.
5.A daughter is equally precious as son. We should not promote gender inequality. A daughter is as capable as son.
6.Menturational taboos are a curse to society. It is nothing but a human change that occurs in girls during the age of puberty . It is a biological change nothing more than that.
7.Each gender has their uniqueness it has nothing to do with physical mobility.
8.Not like that girls are permanent members of their family if they marry and become someone's wife and daughter in law that doesn't mean that she is not daughter of her father. She is equal to both the family and permanent member of both the family.
Absolutely correct these are the hurdles of our society
ReplyDeleteDiscrimination between boys and girls is a social evil which stands as a barrier on the way of development of the society. So such type of social norms and practices should be changed and every child should be given equal opportunities in every place and every field..
ReplyDeleteThese are old tradition and nowadays there is being great change in law and society hence girls also do everything
ReplyDeleteThe boy and girl are the two sides of our society wheel.So the man as well as woman should be respected equally. The girl edn like early girl child marriage,dowry system,preference of son over daughter are the long term bad practices in our society. So it is very difficult to change such practices in short span of time.we have to change first the ideology and create awareness among our people who support such practices.
ReplyDeleteThe parent should give equal opportunity to the son and daughter. Discrimination girl child is a social evil and it should be prohibited in our society. The son and daughter have equal rights on the family property. Early marriage of the girls should be prohibited and also the dowry system.
ReplyDeleteSarat kumar Rout , Kendrapara :-
ReplyDeleteDiscrimination between boys and girls is a bad custom of society.
Early marriage of girls should be avoided. Certain steps should be taken to avoid dowry system. Female is also eligible like male to take care of their families and also society.We have to create awareness in the society to reduce the discrimination among boys and girls.
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ReplyDeleteThese ideas should be change because boy and girl should get everything equally there should be no discrimination between them .and the society should adapt new ideas .
ReplyDeletewe can we must we will change the gender discrimination thought of our socity if we can change ourselves n.our lady elder family members mentality
ReplyDeleteMenstrual taboos and myths(ମାସିକ ଋତୁ ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ବିଧି ନିଷେଧ ଏବଂ ମନଗଢା କଥା):_
ReplyDeleteଝିଅମାନଙ୍କର ମାସିକ ଋତୁସ୍ରାବ ଏକ ପ୍ରାକୃତିକ, ସାଧାରଣ, ସ୍ବାଭାବିକ ଓ ଶାରିରୀକ ପ୍ରକ୍ରିୟା ଯାହା ଝିଅଟିଏ କିଶୋରୀ ଅବସ୍ଥାରେ ପଦାର୍ପଣ କରିବାକୁ ସୂଚୀତ କରିଥାଏ। ଝିଅଟିଏ ସାଧାରଣତଃ ୧୧-୧୫ ବର୍ଷ ବୟସ ମଧ୍ୟରେ ପ୍ରଥମ ଋତୁମତୀ ହୋଇଥାଏ। ଆଉ ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ଏ ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ନାନା ବିଧି, ନିୟମ , କୁସଂସ୍କାର ଓ ଭ୍ରାନ୍ତ ଧାରଣା ରହିଛି ଯାହା ସ୍ଥାନ ବିଶେଷରେ ହୁଏତ ଭିନ୍ନ ଭିନ୍ନ ହୋଇଥାଇ ପାରେ। ଯେପରିକି ଝିଅଟିଏ ପ୍ରଥମ ଋତୁମତୀ ହେବା ସମୟରେ ତାକୁ ୭ ଦିନ ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ ଏକ କୋଠରୀରେ ବନ୍ଦ ରହିବାକୁ କୁହାଯାଏ ଯେପରି କୌଣସି ପୁରୁଷଲୋକ ତା'ର ମୁଖ ଦର୍ଶନ କରି ପାରିବେ ନାହିଁ। ରୋଷେଇ, ଦେବ ପୂଜା କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ , ମନ୍ଦିର ପ୍ରବେଶ ଆଦି କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ଋତୁମତୀ ଝିଅମାନେ କରିବା ଅନୁଚିତ ଓ ଏହା ପାପ । ଝିଅ ମାନଙ୍କର ଋତୁସ୍ରାବକୁ ନେଇ ଏସବୁ ବିଧି, କୁସଂସ୍କାର ଓ ମନଗଢା କଥା ସମାଜରୁ ହଟିବା ଦରକାର । ଏହା ଏକ ପ୍ରାକୃତିକ ଓ ସ୍ବାଭାବିକ ପ୍ରକ୍ରିୟା। ଏହାକୁ ଭିତ୍ତି କରି ନାନା ନୀତି ନିୟମ ଓ ମନଗଢା କାହାଣୀ ସୃଷ୍ଟି କରି ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କୁ ନୀଚ୍ଚ ଦେଖାଇବା ଅଥବା ଲଜ୍ଜିତ କରିବା ଅନୁଚିତ। ବରଂ ଏହା ସମ୍ପର୍କିତ ଆବଶ୍ୟକୀୟ ସଚେତନତା ଓ ସ୍ବଚ୍ଛତା ଜ୍ଞାନ ଶିକ୍ଷା ମାଧ୍ୟମରେ ଛାତ୍ର ଛାତ୍ରୀଙ୍କୁ ଦିଆଯିବା ସହ ସମାଜରେ ସଚେତନତା ସୃଷ୍ଟି ଆବଶ୍ୟକ।
Restrictions on physical mobility of girls(ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କ ଶାରିରୀକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଉପରେ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ):- ଏ କଥାଟି ସତ ଯେ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କ ଶାରିରୀକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଉପରେ ପରିବାର ଠାରୁ ଆରମ୍ଭ କରି ସମାଜ ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ ନାନା ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ଲଗାଯାଏ। ଅର୍ଥାତ୍ ବାଳିକା ର ଚାଲିଚଳଣି, କଥାବାର୍ତ୍ତା, ଆଚାର ବ୍ୟବହାର ଏପରିକି ବାଳିକାଟି କେଉଁଠିକୁ ଯିବ କେଉଁଠିକୁ ନ ଯିବ, କିପରି ସେ ବସିବ, ହସିବ , କାହା ସହ ମିଶିବ ଓ କାହା ସହ ନ ମିଶିବ ଆଦି ତା'ର ପ୍ରତିଟି କାର୍ଯ୍ୟକଳାପ ଉପରେ ପାରିବାରିକ ଓ ସାମାଜିକ କଟକଣା ରହିଛି ଯାହା ଗତାନୁଗତିକ ପ୍ରଥା ପରି ଆଜିଯାଏ ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ପ୍ରଚଳିତ ମଧ୍ୟ। ଉଦାହରଣ ସ୍ବରୂପ ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ବିଳମ୍ବିତ ରାତିରେ ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କୁ ବାହାରକୁ ଏକାକୀ ଯିବାକୁ ବାରଣ କରାଯାଏ। ଶ୍ମଶାନକୁ ଯିବାକୁ ବାଳିକା/ନାରୀମାନଙ୍କୁ ବାରଣ କରାଯାଏ। କ୍ରିକେଟ ଖେଳିବା, ଗଛ ଚଢିବା, ମୁଷ୍ଟି ଯୁଦ୍ଧ କରିବା, ବୈଷୟିକ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଗ୍ରହଣ କରିବା, ଆଦି କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କ ପାଇଁ ଉଦ୍ଦିଷ୍ଟ ନୁହେଁ ବୋଲି ଆଜି ମଧ୍ୟ ସମାଜର ଗ୍ରାମାଞ୍ଚଳରେ ଏ ପ୍ରକାର ଭାବନା ରହିଛି। ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କୁ ପିଲାଦିନରୁ ଘରକରଣା କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ ଶିଖିବା ଉପରେ ଗୁରୁତ୍ବ ଦିଆଯାଇଥାଏ। ଆଜି କେତେକ ଉଚ୍ଚ ଶିକ୍ଷିତ ପରିବାରରେ ଏ ଚିନ୍ତାଧାରାର ବିଲୋପ ହୋଇଛି ସତ କିନ୍ତୁ ଗ୍ରାମାଞ୍ଚଳରେ ଆଜି ମଧ୍ୟ ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କର ଶାରିରୀକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଉପରେ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ରହିଛି ଯାହା ବାସ୍ତବରେ ନିରର୍ଥକ ଓ ଏହାର କୈାଣସି ସକରାତ୍ମକ ପ୍ରଭାବ ସମାଜ ଉପରେ ନାହିଁ। ବରଂ ଏହା ସମାଜରେ ଲିଙ୍ଗଗତ ବାଛବିଚାରକୁ ଅଧିକ ଦୃଢ଼ କରିଥାଏ।
ReplyDeleteପ୍ରକୃତରେ ଠିକ କଥା।
DeleteAs per my point of view there is a need of changes in all the above 8 issues..all these issues must be discussed in open to bring necessary and positive changes in them..at the same time issues like early child marriage and gender discrimination should be wiped out from the society..
ReplyDeleteGirls are non- permanent members of the family(ବାଳିକା ମାନେ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ):- ବାଳିକାମାନେ ବିବାହ ଯୋଗ୍ୟା ହେଲେ ବିବାହ କରି ନିଜ ପିତ୍ରାଳୟ ଛାଡି ଶ୍ବଶୁରାଳୟକୁ ଯିବାର ସାମାଜିକ ପରମ୍ପରା ବହୁ କାଳରୁ ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ପ୍ରଚଳିତ। ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କୁ ସମାଜରେ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ ଭାବେ ବିବେଚନା କରାଯାଇଥାଏ। ସେଥିପାଇଁ ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କୁ ସମାଜରେ 'ପରଧନ'ର ଆଖ୍ୟା ଦିଆଯାଇ ଥାଏ। ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କ ପ୍ରତି ସମାଜର ଏପରି ଦୃଷ୍ଟିଭଙ୍ଗୀ ନିଶ୍ଚିତ ଭାବରେ ନୈରାଶ୍ୟଜନକ। ବାଳିକାଟିଏ ବିବାହ କରି ଅନ୍ୟ ଘରକୁ ଯିବା ଏକ ସାମାଜିକ ପରମ୍ପରା ମାତ୍ର ଯାହାକୁ ଆମ ପୁରୁଷକୈନ୍ଦ୍ରିକ ସମାଜ ହିଁ ତିଆରି କରିଛି । କିନ୍ତୁ ଏହାକୁ ମାଧ୍ୟମ କରି ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କୁ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ ମନେ କରିବା ଅନୁଚିତ। ବାଳିକାମାନେ ତ କେବଳ ଉକ୍ତ ସାମାଜିକ ପ୍ରଥାକୁ ନିଜ ପରିବାରର ସମ୍ମାନ ମଣି ଗ୍ରହଣ କରି ଆସୁଛନ୍ତି। ଆଉ ଆଜିର ବ୍ୟସ୍ତ ବହୁଳ ଜୀବନରେ ବାଳକମାନଙ୍କୁ ମଧ୍ୟ ନିଜ କର୍ମ, ଶିକ୍ଷା ବା ଅନ୍ୟାନ୍ୟ କାରଣରୁ ନିଜ ପିତାମାତାଙ୍କ ଘର ଛାଡ଼ି ଅନ୍ୟତ୍ର ରହିବାକୁ ପଡୁଛି। ତେବେ ଆମେ ପୁଅଙ୍କୁ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ ତ କାହିଁ କରୁନାହୁଁ ! ତେଣୁ ଏପରି ନାରୀ ବିରୋଧୀ ମତପୋଷଣ ନିନ୍ଦନୀୟ ଓ ସର୍ବଦା ଅଗ୍ରାହ୍ୟ।
ReplyDeleteYes right
DeleteSon and daughter should remain in same place in the family.Dowry should be avoided.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender. Discriminating girl child over boy is a social evil and should never exist in our society . Though the legal system of our country has taken several necessary steps to provide equal opportunities to girls like boys but more education and awareness is required at the ground level to educate people on this .
ReplyDeleteSocial evils against girl children like early girl child marriage ,dowry system, female foeticide, considering male gender as superior than female etc . those used to exist predominantly in Indian society and still existing today should be strictly abolished and encouraging this in any form should be criminalized and treated as punishable offense by court of law.
Girl's are the most purest form of emotion,love,care that made by God.So respect your girl that may be your mother,wife,sister,daughter.and also give same right to your daughter and your son .Both are precious because without a woman the man is empty.Both are conjugate with eachother and also give them right education to survive in society and also respect to eachother.
ReplyDelete୧ -ପୁଅ ମାନେ ପାରିବାରିକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିର ଉତ୍ତରାଧୀକାରୀ
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ପାରିବାରିକ ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିରେ ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ର ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ରହିଛି। ଏଥିରୁ କାହାକୁ ଅଲଗା କରି ପାରିବା ନାହିଁ। ଏହା ଏକ ଅପରାଧ ଅଟେ।
୨-ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶୀଘ୍ର ବିବାହ
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ଆମ ଦେଶରେ ଏବେ ବିଭିନ୍ନ ଅଞ୍ଚଳରେ ବାଲ୍ୟ ବିବାହ ପ୍ରଚଳିତ ହେଉଛି। ଯାହାକୁ ରୋକିବା ପାଇଁ ଚାଇଲ୍ଡି ଲାଇନ୍ କାମ କରୁଛି। ବିବାହ ନିମନ୍ତେ ସରକାର ଏକ ନିର୍ଦ୍ଧିଷ୍ଟ ବୟସ ସୀମା ସ୍ଥିର କରିଛନ୍ତି। ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶୀଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ଉପରେ ରୋକ୍ ଲଗାଯିବା ଉଚିତ୍।
୩-ପୁରୁଷମାନେ ପାଳନ ପୋଷଣ କାରୀ
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ପ୍ରାୟତଃ ଘରର ସମସ୍ତ ଭରଣ ପୋଷଣ ସହିତ ପିଲା ମାନଙ୍କର ଯତ୍ନ ଓ ଦାୟିତ୍ୱ ଝିଅ ମାନଙ୍କ ଉପରେ ନ୍ୟସ୍ତ ଥାଏ , ତେଣୁ କେବଳ ପୁରୁଷ ମାନଙ୍କୁ ଯତ୍ନକାରୀ ଭାବିବା ଭୁଲ୍ ।
୪- ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା
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ଯୌତୁକ ଦେବା ଓ ନେବା ଏକ ଅପରାଧ, ତେଣୁ ଏହାକୁ ଯଥାଶୀଘ୍ର ବନ୍ଦ କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ।
୫-ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ଅପେକ୍ଷା ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କ ଉପରେ
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ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ଦୁହେଁ ସମାନ ତେଣୁ ଆମେ ଲିଙ୍ଗଗତ ଅସମାନତାକୁ ପ୍ରୋତ୍ସାହିତ କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ। ଝିଅ ମାନେ ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କ ପରି ସମସ୍ତ କାର୍ଯ୍ୟ କରିବାରେ ସକ୍ଷମ ଅଟନ୍ତି ।
୬- ମାସିକ ଋତୁ ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ବିଧି ନିଷେଧ ଏବଂ ମନଗଢା
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ମାସିକ ଋତୁସ୍ରାବ ଏକ ଶାରୀରିକ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ। ଏହା ପାଇଁ ରହିଥିବା ରିତୀ, ନୀତି ଓ ପରମ୍ପରା ଭୁଲ୍ ଅଟେ ,ତେଣୁ ଏହା ବନ୍ଦ ହେବା ଉଚିତ୍।
୭-ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶାରୀରିକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଉପରେ
ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ।
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ଭଗବାନଙ୍କ ସୃଷ୍ଟିରେ ଶରୀରର ବିଭିନ୍ନ ଅଙ୍ଗର ଏକ ସସ୍ବତନ୍ତ୍ରତା ରହିଛି, ତେଣୁ ଏହାର ଶାରୀରିକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା ସହିତ କୌଣସି ସମ୍ପର୍କ ନାହିଁ ।
୮- ବାଳିକା ମାନେ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ।
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ଏହା ଭୁଲ୍ କଥା, ଝିଅଟିଏ ବିବାହ କଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ ତାର ଶାଶୁଘର ଓ ବାପଘରେ ତାକୁ ଝିଅ ପରି ଭାବିବା କଥା।ତେଣୁ ଉଭୟ ପରିବାରର ସେ ସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ।
ଆପଣ ଠିକ୍ କହିଛନ୍ତି
DeleteIn past time only king's sons received knowledge but not daughters.In present generation both can learn .This is the great words for all Teacher's.
ReplyDeleteEarly child marriage should be banned and dowry system should be prohibited and treated as illegal by law.Gender discrimination should be avoided. In every aspect girls should be given priority in our society.
ReplyDeleteଉଭୟ ପୁଅ କିମ୍ବା ଝିଅ ସମାନ
ReplyDeleteNo change
ReplyDeleteSome old practices and myths, which promotes gender discrimination should be change. Because now a days women have same ability to work with men in each and every field. So restriction on girls should be stop and encourage them to do better job in their interested area without any condition.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender.Early child marriage ,dowry system are decreasing as compare to thirty or fifty years back if we see such types of evils from our society.
ReplyDeleteGender discrimination should be avoided.
ReplyDeleteBoth boys and girls are both skdes of the same coin. People understand this so that we can make a beautiful nation.
ReplyDeleteNot only the sons but the daughters can take care of their parents. If people understand this, then many problems like female infanticide, early girls child marriage etc can be solved.
Both boys and girls can earn money. Both are independent. Both can show their strength, weakness. Both can cry laugh and are free to express their feelings. People should also aware about mensuration and should stop practicing the myths about it. So that a better society can be made.
Yes,these are huddles of society.This should be removed from everybody's mind.
ReplyDeleteBoys and girls are both sides of the same coin. People should understand this so that we can make a beautiful nation.
ReplyDeleteNot only the sons but also the daughters can take care of their parents. If people canunderstand this, then many problems like female infanticide, early girls child marriage etc can be solved.
Both boys and girls can earn money. Both are independent. Both can show their strength, weakness. Both can cry, laugh and are free to express their feelings. People should also aware about mensuration and should stop practicing the myths about it. Both boys and girls should get equal opportunity and equal rights in the society. So that a better society can be made.
Boys and girls are both sides of the same coin. People should understand this so that we can make a beautiful nation.
ReplyDeleteNot only the sons but also the daughters can take care of their parents. If people canunderstand this, then many problems like female infanticide, early girls child marriage etc can be solved.
Both boys and girls can earn money. Both are independent. Both can show their strength, weakness. Both can cry, laugh and are free to express their feelings. People should also aware about mensuration and should stop practicing the myths about it. Both boys and girls should get equal opportunity and equal rights in the society. So that a better society can be made.
Right to equality of both gender is
ReplyDeletegood & society is also inmarch for
that.But there must b guide line for
both.
Sata re e Sabu puruna pratha Sabu dhire dhire bandh hii heba uchit..pua o jhia ra samaan adhikaar hii rahibaar katha....
ReplyDeleteObey guide lines of right to equality.
ReplyDeleteବର୍ତମାନ ସମୟ ବଦଳି ଯାଇଛି ସେଥିପାଇଁ ଆମେ ସମସ୍ତେ ମିଶିକି ସମାଜର ବିଭିନ୍ନ ପ୍ରଥା କୁ ପରିବର୍ତନ କର କରି ଏହି ଭୁଲ ଧାରଣା କୁ ସମାଜ ରୁ ବାହାରକରିଦେବା ଉଚିତ
ReplyDelete୧- ପୁଅମାନେ ପାରିବାରିକ ସମ୍ପତିର ବୈଧ
ReplyDeleteଉତ୍ତରାଧିକାରୀ ଅଟନ୍ତି ।
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ପରିବାରର ସମ୍ପତ୍ତିରେ ଉଭୟ ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅଙ୍କର ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ରହିଛି ।
୨- ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କର ଶୀଘ୍ର ବିବାହ ।
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ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କୁ କମ୍ ବୟସରେ ବିବାହ କରି ଦିଅନ୍ତି ।ଯହାର ପରିଣାମ ସ୍ୱରୂପ ଉଭୟ ମା ଓ ଛୁଆ ଉପରେ ଖରାପ ପ୍ରଭାବ ପଡିଥାଏ ,ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କୁ ଶୀଘ୍ର ବିବାହ କରିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁଁ ।
୩- ପୁରୁଷମାନେ ଯତ୍ନ ନେବାକାରୀ/ ପାଳନ
ପୋଷଣକାରୀ ।
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ପରିବାରର ପ୍ରାୟତଃ ଯତ୍ନ ନେବା ବା ପାଳନ ପୋଷଣ କରିବା ଦାୟିତ୍ୱ କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ ମହିଳାମାନଙ୍କ ଭୂମିକା ଅଧିକ ଥାଏ ,ତେଣୁ ଉଭୟ ପୁରୁଷ ଓ ମହିଳା ପରିବାରର ଯତ୍ନ ନେବା ଉଚିତ୍ ।
୪- ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ।
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ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ଆମ ସମାଜର ଏକ ବ୍ୟାଧି ସ୍ୱରୁପ ।ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା ଯୋଗୁ ଆମ ସମାଜରେ ବିଭିନ୍ନ ହିଂସା ଘଟିଥାଏ ,ତେଣୁ ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥାକୁ ସମ୍ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ରୂପେ ସମାଜରୁ ବନ୍ଦ ହେବା ଉଚିତ୍ ।
୫- ଝିଅମାନଙ୍କ ଅପେକ୍ଷା ପୁଅମାନଙ୍କ
ଉପରେ ପ୍ରାଥମିକତା ।
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ପରିବାରରେ ହେଉ କିମ୍ବା ସମାଜରେ ହେଉ ଝିଅ ଓ ପୁଅ ସମସ୍ତଙ୍କର ସମାନ ଅଧିକାର ରହିଛି। ଝିଅ ମାନଙ୍କ ଉପରେ ଯେତେ ପ୍ରାଥମିକତା ଦିଆଯିବ ଦେଶ ସେତେ ଉନ୍ନତି ହେବ ।
୬- ମାସିକ ଋତୁ ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ବିଧି ନିଷେଧ
ଏବଂ ମନଗଢା କଥା ।
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ମାସିକ ଋତୁସ୍ରାବ ବାଳିକା ମାନଙ୍କ କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ ଏକ ଶାରିରୀକ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ,ତେଣୁ ସମାଜରୁ ମାସିକ ଋତୁସ୍ରାବ ସମ୍ବନ୍ଧୀୟ ବିଧି ନିଷେଧ ହେବା ଉଚିତ୍ ।
୭- ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କର ଶାରୀରିକ ଗତିଶୀଳତା
ଉପରେ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ।
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ଈଶ୍ୱରଙ୍କ ସୃଷ୍ଟିରେ ଶାରୀରିକ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନ ସମାୟନୁବର୍ତ୍ତି ହୋଇଥାଏ ,ତେଣୁ ବାଳିକାମାନଙ୍କର ଗତିଶୀଳତା ଉପରେ ପ୍ରତିବନ୍ଧକ ଉଚିତ୍ ନୁହେଁ ।
୮- ବାଳିକାମାନେ ପରିବାରର ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ
ସଦସ୍ୟ ।
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ବାଳିକାମାନେ ବିବାହ କରି ଶାଶୁଘର ଗଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ ସେ ପରିବାରର ସବୁବେଳେ ସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟ ।
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Girls and boys have the same rights in a family and should be treated both in the same way with freedom, scope and facilities.
ReplyDeleteA change in social norms and practices is a long term process... Martin Luther King Jr. said that "human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable,it requires the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals".This is why we should be optimistic. By actively promoting gender parity, facilitating flexible career growth and empowering more female leadership we should be able to realistically accomplish this goal in our lifetime.
ReplyDeleteପରିବର୍ତ୍ତିତ ସମୟ ସହ ଲୋକଙ୍କରଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ମଧ୍ୟ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନର ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ରହିଛି।ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ସମସ୍ତେ
ReplyDeleteସମାନ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଓ ସାମାଜିକ ଅଧିକାର ପାଇବା
ଉଚିତ । ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ, ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା,
ପକ୍ଷପାତିତା,ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟତା ଝିଅ
ମାନଙ୍କର ଆତ୍ମବିଶ୍ୱାସ ଓ ମନୋବଳକୁ
ସୁଦୃଢ କରିବାରେ ବାଧା ଦିଏ।
We should change our mentality.
ReplyDeleteAll the given points create the gender discrimination but to eradicate we require a strong and systematic awareness. A proper education from the root level is to be planned. More programmes like Meena mancha will be fruitful.
ReplyDeleteEvery parents must agree that sons are sons till marriage but daughters are daughters for ever. Dowry system and child marriage must banned not only by law but also by social activities.
ReplyDeleteAll are equal.
ReplyDeleteBoys and girls are equal in every aspect of society. In fact girls are showing ridiculous progress in field of studies or be it games, science agriculture, war, engeenering. Which is just the reverse of past year. So we will take care both in equality. For ever stop dowry system. Don't apply on family on brooms.
ReplyDeleteBoth equally need for a better society. Rather daughters are best guides of parent in old age. Our mentality should be changed towards daughters.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely correct
ReplyDeleteIt is real truth
ReplyDeleteDon't be fooled
ReplyDeleteDon't forget we have passed many laws to protect women rights
Nowadays they're equal with men.Now this is the right time to think about the neuter gender.We have to do something for them.
Boys and girls are equal in every aspect of our modern society...so we should treat them equally..
ReplyDeleteAll of these customs and mindsets of our ancient society needs to change. So right education can enable our children to understand the righteous social activities related to gender equality. Women are also equivalent stakeholders of our society. A prosperous society cannot be imagined without women.
ReplyDeleteପରିବର୍ତ୍ତିତ ସମୟ ସହ ଲୋକଙ୍କରଚିନ୍ତାଧାରା ମଧ୍ୟ ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତନର ଆବଶ୍ୟକ ରହିଛି।ପୁଅ ଓ ଝିଅ ସମସ୍ତେ
ReplyDeleteସମାନ ଶିକ୍ଷା ଓ ସାମାଜିକ ଅଧିକାର ପାଇବା
ଉଚିତ । ଶିଘ୍ର ବିବାହ, ଯୌତୁକ ପ୍ରଥା,
ପକ୍ଷପାତିତା,ଅସ୍ଥାୟୀ ସଦସ୍ୟତା ଝିଅ
ମାନଙ୍କର ଆତ୍ମବିଶ୍ୱାସ ଓ ମନୋବଳକୁ
ସୁଦୃଢ କରିବାରେ ବାଧା ଦିଏ।
Absolutely correct.
ReplyDeleteVery frankly, we describe Boys and Girls as two opposite sides of a coin, attached together. And we still describe ourselves Civilised though we possess Gender Stereotypes and create poor thinkings on Girl Child. In the context of Sex, the girls are different from boys, but all other qualities they can prove. They have emotions as well. We think Baby Boys as our Legal Heirs, but still there exist some races who follow Materfamilias.
ReplyDeleteAll misconceptions and barriers should be kicked out and let them be free from every hurdles, let them feel their importance, let them prove themselves, let their hidden talents get shined, let them conquer the sky.
These practices should be changed for the safety of the women in socity and protect their rights.
ReplyDeleteThese practices put the women vulnerable.So these practice should be abolished.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender.
ReplyDeleteRight
ReplyDeleteAll are equal...
ReplyDeleteBoys and girls are equal in every aspect of our modern society. Infact girls are showing ridiculous progress in field of studies or be it games. Which is just the reverse of past years. Say(20-30 years agone).
ReplyDeleteBut sadly discrimination still exists. Girls aren't given proper education and are getting married rather than doin a job in many corners of the country.
So we should make people understand give em chance. They will touch the stars. No discrimination should exist in both the genders.
Both the genders have equal rights and all are equal. There should not be any difference in both the genders.
ReplyDelete𝚆𝚎 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚊𝚟𝚘𝚒𝚍 𝚜𝚘𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚎𝚟𝚒𝚕𝚜 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚍𝚘𝚠𝚛𝚢 𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚢 𝚌𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚍 𝚖𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚎𝚝𝚌 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚌𝚑 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚖𝚊𝚒𝚗 𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚏𝚎𝚖𝚊𝚕𝚎 𝚋𝚊𝚌𝚔𝚠𝚊𝚛𝚍 𝚗𝚎𝚜𝚜. 𝚃𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚋𝚎 𝚐𝚒𝚟𝚎𝚗 𝚎𝚚𝚞𝚊𝚕 𝚘𝚙𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚞𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚢 𝚜𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚎𝚗𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚏𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚊𝚐𝚊𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚜𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚒𝚕𝚜 𝚋𝚢 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚖𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚟𝚎𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚐𝚎𝚝 𝚊 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚖𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚟𝚎𝚜.
ReplyDeleteEvery child should be given equal opportunity in the family irrespective of their gender.Discriminating girl child over boy is a social evil and should never exist in our society.
ReplyDeleteWe are not living in 19th century more this practices should stop
ReplyDeleteGender discussion and harrasment of the students and discrimination should be avoided
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